My situation as we speak. Waking up to little snores to this little man every second morning and getting to cuddle with him before jumping into the shower to attack the day really is the best part of all my days. This is Marley. He is Oscars son. I have known him from his first breathing moment and I have adored him for months before that. I know that Maddox will be my first born son and yes, he will be the grandest part of my life because he is “mine”. But I don’t think love works that way. Love can be unconditional without having to be connected through DNA. Just like you unconditionally start to love a partner. I unconditional learn and grow together with Marley and Loui every day. They are no longer just Oscar’s kids. They are mine. and they have grown to become my everything together with Oscar. I can slowly start seeing parts of my personality in them already. Believe it or not. I just wanted that said here 6 am. haha. All you moms out there totally get what I am talking about and all you non-moms probably think this was the most boring post ever. But that’s life, you’ll get what I’m talking about eventually.